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A recurring commitment can stay on your calendar long after its original purpose has changed. A founder may still attend a meeting that another person now leads, prepare a report nobody uses, or maintain a service promise that no longer fits the available time. Before adding a new productivity routine, review what you have already agreed to keep doing.
A stop-doing review is a practical planning exercise. It does not mean dropping responsibilities without notice. The aim is to decide what to keep, change, transfer, or end—and to make those decisions clear to anyone affected.
Start with commitments, not complaints
List the recurring activities that currently require your time. Include business work and personal obligations, because both draw on the same calendar. For each item, write down its purpose, who depends on it, and what would happen if it stopped.
Keep the description concrete. “Too many meetings” is difficult to act on. “I attend the weekly project update to answer questions that could be collected beforehand” gives you something to examine. Use your own recent experience rather than assuming every interruption is unnecessary.
Check whether the original reason still applies
Ask what the commitment was meant to accomplish and whether it still does that job. A temporary check-in may have become permanent by habit. A useful activity may need a different frequency. A task that feels frustrating may still protect a customer promise or support someone who relies on you.
Do not confuse “I dislike this” with “this has no value.” If the purpose is unclear, ask the people involved before deciding. If the work is essential but exceeds your capacity, the next step may be a conversation about scope, resources, or timing.
Choose a specific change
- Keep: Retain the commitment and make its purpose explicit.
- Change: Reduce the scope, adjust the frequency, or replace the format by agreement.
- Transfer: Agree on a new owner, the information they need, and the decisions they can make.
- End: Confirm that the activity is no longer required and tell affected people when it will stop.
For example, a founder might propose replacing their attendance at a routine update with a short written summary and a clear route for decisions that need their input. That is a hypothetical option, not a universal rule. It only helps if the team can still get the decisions and support it needs.
Make the handoff visible
Write down the agreed change, who is responsible, and when it begins. If you are transferring work, confirm that the other person has the capacity and authority to take it on. Simply removing a meeting from your calendar does not transfer ownership of its decisions.
Keep obligations to customers, colleagues, family, and others visible. A stop-doing review should lead to an explicit agreement, not a missed deadline or a surprise withdrawal of support.
Review what the change actually freed up
Choose a review date. Did the activity disappear, become smaller, or move into an informal stream of messages? Did someone else inherit an unclear workload? Adjust the arrangement based on what happened.
Decide what the released time is for before automatically filling it. It may support focused work, an existing responsibility, or time away from work. An empty slot does not have to become another commitment.
This exercise fits the Reprogram Method: audit the current situation, identify constraints, choose practical changes, build supportive defaults, and review the result. The method is coaching and education; this planning exercise does not diagnose or treat burnout.
Take the free Life Audit for a broader self-reflection starting point. The current tool offers 32 questions across eight domains; use your responses to guide questions and conversations, rather than treating a score as an objective diagnosis.